thanks ladies

so far only my mum and sisters know the date, my mum will be here watching ds for the week and i dont mind if she comes in and brings ds in, my sisters wont be visiting as they live 3 hours away and one is due to give birth the following week.
i guess i dont have to tell the in-laws but trying to stop DF from telling them immediatly after birth will be pretty impossible which is ok, but they normaly have no respect when it comes to visiting even on a normal day to day basis, mil NEVER calls before visiting EVER, so i asume that she will turn up uninvited whether i like it or not...

i guess i should start reminding DF i dont want visitors and hopefully he will make sure his family knows it...